You. Me. We’ll make 3.
I know you want it: that thing you can’t describe, that bullet-proof-couple-ness. You used to be different and you want it back. You want your partner to look at you that way, you want your life to have some soul and ease and it just plain doesn’t.
With me, you’ll step into a just-for-you designed world of Bad-Assery. Yes, you read that right.
All my work with clients is far from anything cookie-cutter; we talk about what you really, really want (underneath what you thought that might have been) and we go after it. Together. Every single session will be a dance; a tango, a two-step and maybe even a cha-cha. I draw from my tools of certification in coaching, my work with the Gottman Institute, my work with Danielle LaPorte’s Desire Map, and my hundreds of hours of speaking to people and nudging them with my gentle (and not-so-gentle) prodding.
Unlike a lover or a friend or a co-worker, I am not here for you to like me, so I will stand in service of your absolute greatness. I will champion and believe in you and show you your own holy-shit-that’s-me-ness.
I bring something I call Blissful Unattachment and it means that in our time together, I get to meet you wherever you are, keep you safe as you crack open and look at what’s inside, and then I set you free to see and discover whatever you will, having let you go and trusting that what you need to find out, you will.
We’ll design our time together, but I basically take clients on for a sweet-spot time of 3-6 months at a time. This is the best amount of time to really dig into things and see it in action. We will speak over Skype and be in contact via email between sessions.
I have worked with couples of all ages, shapes and sizes, at various places on the monogamy continuum. I have supported new parents, entrepreneurs, chefs, brewmasters, doulas, accountants, actors, executives and make-up artists. It’s about the fit and the passion, not the details of where you work or with whom you live.
To start, my clients invest anywhere from $3000 to $20,000 in our work. I create custom packages for every single client and couple I work with, but this is the average window of where they fall.
While the financial part of this is a very tangible way to have skin in the game, it is the smallest part of it; your life is going to shift and you are going to be asked to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. I will meet you where you are and ask you to stretch, in whatever situation you are in.
If you are really, truly ready to have your life, your marriage, your relationships, your Bad Ass self be BIGGER, then it’s time to contact me and make that happen. So what are you waiting for?
I get around. Join me!
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